Aug. 21, 2026

Vaccines, Autism, and Why Parental Choice Matters to Me | Episode 105

Show Notes

Hey, What's Up! It's Tommy.

There is a lot happening right now around childhood vaccines, autism, and the role parents have in making medical decisions for their kids, and for me, this conversation is deeply personal. I'm sharing why the possibility of changes to federal vaccine recommendations and the MMR schedule hits me so hard after watching my son experience a dramatic regression in his health, and how my thinking has changed as I've learned more about what some call the "perfect storm" of stress on a child's developing nervous system. I'm not a doctor, and I'm not here to tell another parent whether to vaccinate, but I do believe parents deserve the freedom to ask questions, do their own research, and make informed decisions without being pressured or shamed. As a father raising a child with profound autism, I can't separate this conversation from what our family lived through, the things I wish I had known, and my hope that autism parenting families in the future will have more information and more choices. This is emotional for me because our children's health is everything, and I believe their future is worth having difficult conversations about.

Key Takeaways

I'm sharing why proposed changes to childhood vaccine recommendations feel so significant to me, especially when they could give parents more room to make individual healthcare decisions for their children.
I look back at my son's regression after receiving the MMR vaccine and explain why that experience still shapes the questions I ask today, while also sharing how my thinking has expanded beyond believing there was one single cause.
I talk about the "perfect storm" idea I've learned about through Dr. Tony and PX Docs, including the possibility that multiple sources of stress on a developing nervous system could contribute to a child's struggles.
I'm not telling parents whether or not to vaccinate. I'm sharing my family's experience and encouraging parents to research, ask questions, understand their options, and make the decision they believe is right for their child.
After years of feeling like families with stories like mine weren't being heard, I'm encouraged to see autism, profound autism, parental choice, and children's health receiving more attention and conversation.

You can find this episode, past episodes, and more at spectrumincamouflage.com. I always want to hear from other parents and families walking through autism and special needs parenting, so if something I said connected with you, challenged you, or gave you something to think about, email me at tommy@spectrumincamouflage.com.