April 16, 2026

With Kailee: Why “Being Weird” Might Be the Best Thing for Your Autistic Child

Show Notes

Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy.

This episode is one of those late-night, real conversations. Kailee and I sat down tired, a little punchy, and just talked through life as parents raising a child with autism. It’s Autism Awareness Month, and instead of overthinking it, we just shared what’s actually going on in our world right now.

We talked about Wyatt, the progress he’s been making, and one of the biggest wins we’ve had recently, him learning to swim on his own. That moment meant more than we can explain. It wasn’t just swimming. It was confidence, connection, and a glimpse of what’s possible.

We also got honest about the harder side of this journey. The reality that many families are dealing with, cutting back work, losing income, struggling to find childcare, and feeling like there just isn’t much support out there. These aren’t rare stories. They’re common, and they need to be talked about.

A big part of this episode is about mindset. Trusting your gut. Being willing to try things that feel different. We’ve gone down a lot of paths over the years, some traditional, some not. And what we’ve learned is that progress takes time, consistency, and a willingness to step outside the norm.

Kailee said it best. Be weird. Try something different. Think outside the box. Because sometimes the answers you’re looking for aren’t where everyone else is looking.

We’re not experts. We’re just parents doing our best and sharing what we’re learning along the way. If you’re in this, you’re not alone.

Key Takeaways

Autism is a broad spectrum, but profound autism comes with challenges many people do not fully see
Many parents are forced to reduce work hours or leave jobs to care for their child
Lack of childcare and support systems is a real and ongoing struggle
Swimming can support brain and body coordination and create meaningful progress
Small wins can be huge moments for both the child and the family
Alternative approaches can provide new insights and opportunities for growth
Trusting your instincts as a parent matters
Progress takes time and consistency, not quick fixes
Real life skills like bathrooming, communication, and independence are critical focuses
You are not alone, even when it feels like it

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