Happy 4th of July! | Honoring Our Heroes and Holding On to Hope

Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. In this special 4th of July episode, I take you behind the scenes of our small-town festival—an old-school ox roast that’s been going strong for 50 years. I talk about the thousands of pounds of meat we cook, the work our fire department puts in, and the joy it brings to our community. But more than that, I open up about how this tradition helped me move through grief, find purpose again, and stay connected to the people I love—even when times are hard.

You’ll hear a little about how I joined the fire department after the loss of my best friend, and how the festival became a healing place for me. I also share some powerful updates on Wyatt—how chiropractic care is helping him, and the small victories we’re seeing that mean the world.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, I hope this episode reminds you that something beautiful can come from the hardest things. And that even if you can’t be in a crowd this weekend, you can still make memories—whether it’s watching fireworks from your car or starting a backyard water fight with the kids. Simple joy is still joy.

Key Takeaways

• Small town traditions matter. They create space for healing, community, and legacy.
• Hardship can lead to purpose. My journey from grief to joining the fire department is proof.
• Wyatt is progressing! From riding scooters to getting out of the pool calmly, we’re seeing real growth.
• Find the joy where you are. Whether you’re lighting sparklers or pulling out a sprinkler, make it a celebration.
• Remember what the 4th is really about. It’s more than food and fireworks—it’s about freedom and honoring those who made it possible.

Call me old school, but I will never stop being thankful for our veterans, for our freedoms, and for every small moment with our kids. If you're in a hard season, keep going. Something good is waiting for you.

Let’s keep showing up for our families—and for each other.

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