Sept. 10, 2026

Can Autism Be Genetic? Asking the Questions Parents Are Afraid to Ask

Show Notes

Hey, What's Up! It's Tommy.

This week, I’m talking about hope, progress, and some of the hard questions I keep asking as a dad raising a son with profound autism. A simple moment with Wyatt and a chip full of salsa reminded me that the little wins in autism parenting can actually be monumental, especially when you’ve spent years working, worrying, and wondering what the future might hold. I also share some of the questions I’ve been wrestling with about genetics, environmental factors, regression, and the medical decisions we make for our kids, while making it clear that I’m a dad asking questions, not a doctor giving medical advice. I want parents to feel free to ask questions, look at different perspectives, and make informed decisions for their own families without being driven entirely by fear. Most of all, I hope you walk away encouraged to notice the progress happening right in front of you and never lose hope for what your child may still accomplish.

Key Takeaways

I’m learning to appreciate the small signs of progress with Wyatt because something as simple as dipping a chip and eating it can represent years of growth and development.
I want parents to give themselves some grace because we don’t always understand what our non-speaking children are trying to communicate, especially when everyday life puts us into survival mode.
I’m continuing to explore spelling and communication with Wyatt, and our first session gave me a lot of hope for what may be possible.
I share my personal questions about autism, genetics, environmental factors, regression, and medical decisions because I believe parents should feel empowered to research, ask questions, and understand their options.
I’m not a doctor, and I don’t want anyone simply taking my word for something. I want my experience to encourage you to look deeper, consider multiple perspectives, and make the decisions you believe are right for your family.

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