Sitting Beside the Struggle: Autism, Hep B Vaccines, and Mental Strength for Parents

Hey, What's Up! It's Tommy. In this episode of Spectrum in Camouflage, I talk about some huge changes coming out of the CDC around the hepatitis B vaccine for newborns, what that means to us as autism and special needs families, and how I am learning to sit beside grief instead of living inside it. I share my own struggle with survivor’s guilt after losing a firefighter brother in our town, the weight of looking back at early vaccine decisions for Wyatt, and how all of this ties into mental strength, faith, and the way we keep showing up as parents, spouses, and caregivers in the middle of hard news and heavy feelings.

Key Takeaways

• Community matters more than ever, especially for autism and special needs families who feel like they are walking this road alone.
• We talk about the CDC’s recent vote to stop giving the hepatitis B vaccine in the first 24 hours of life, and why that hits so close to home for me as Wyatt’s dad.
• I share how our story lines up with Jenny McCarthy’s experience and why so many parents feel a mix of vindication, anger, sadness, and relief as more autism-related information comes out.
• Mental health for parents is really about mental strength, learning to feel our emotions fully, then shifting instead of stuffing everything down.
• My coach Steve’s advice, “feel the emotion and then let yourself shift,” has helped me work through survivor’s guilt, medical regret, and the hard parts of our autism journey.
• We dig into how to “sit beside” the struggle, not inside it, so we can still show up for our kids, our spouse, our work, our churches, and our communities.
• There is a growing movement around autism, vaccine timing, Tylenol use, glutathione, and big players like Pfizer and the CDC, and I encourage you to research, ask questions, and protect your kids with both faith and knowledge.
• Moms of kids with special needs are some of the strongest humans on earth, and they deserve real community, real support, and friends who check in when the news and the holidays feel heavy.

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