Opinion: Grace, Grit, And Real Talk About Autism And Politics

Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. I’m sharing a personal opinion and where my head and heart are right now. The last year has been a roller coaster for me. I’m feeling stronger again and working hard on my health, faith, and mindset. Today I speak as a dad of a non-speaking child who needs high support. I love every family on the spectrum, and I also need space to say this with care: please be gentle if your experience looks different from ours. The public fights, politics, and anger hurt the very kids we all care about. I want more research, clearer information, and less shaming. I’m not a savior. I’m a leader learning to serve, listen, and point to hope.

Key Takeaways

• Loud political fights drain energy from real solutions. Kids need love, safety, and practical help.
• The spectrum is wide. Families with non-speaking, high-support kids face different daily risks, needs, and stress.
• Progress is possible when we work our bodies, minds, and spirits on purpose.
• Feelings go up and down. That’s normal. You are not your thoughts.
• Ask real questions. Study the data. Keep an open mind. Curiosity beats combat.
• Leaders serve. They do not rescue. I can point to options, share our story, and protect my family’s peace.
• Give parents grace. Do not blame yourself for what you did not know.
• Community matters. Reach out, share encouragement, and support caregivers who feel alone.
• Even a 1 percent gain adds up. Small steps, steady hope.
• Pray, research, and keep going. Our kids deserve our best attention.

Resources

• Podcast: Unspecial Special Needs Refined with Zach Ponder
• Podcast: Experience Miracles
• Autism Dad Memes on Instagram (Chris)

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