Celebrating Every Child: Simple Ways to Support Siblings of Autistic Kids

Hey, What's Up! It’s Tommy. Parenting in an autism home asks a lot from everyone. Today I talk honestly about how we try to love both of our kids well, especially our daughter Jessie as she grows up alongside her brother Wyatt. I share the moments I have missed, what I am learning, and how simple, steady time together can protect a child’s heart. From celebrating every win to explaining what is happening in the moment, this episode digs into real family life and practical steps that help siblings feel seen, safe, and important. If you need encouragement and simple ideas you can use tonight, you will find them here.

Key Takeaways

• Siblings need clear, gentle explanations. Say what is happening and what will happen next, in simple words.
• Celebrate every win for every child. Small high fives add up fast.
• Schedule one-on-one time. It does not have to be fancy. A short walk, reading a book, or picking up from school matters.
• Watch for quiet resentment. If a child asks, “Are we actually going to do it?”, treat it like a loving alarm.
• Do not assign your sibling as the default playmate or helper. Invite play, join it when you can, and keep it organic.
• Name hope out loud. Tell siblings that skills can grow and that their brother or sister can learn new things over time.
• Keep family rhythms. Meals together, movie nights, and outside play build a strong base for hard days.
• Protect your energy so you can show up. You need joy to spread joy.
• Simple outdoor time helps everyone. Clear “zones” and boundaries outside can lower stress and open space to play.
• Faith, gratitude, and community support keep parents going. You are not alone in this.

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Let’s learn, grow, and make a difference, one step, one piece of the puzzle, one child at a time.